Advice PLEASE!!!

Ok, So I have been with my "boyfriend" for about 6 months, He is my cousins best friend and roomate(how we got introduced) I found out on wendsday that he has a boyfriend that lives in Pa. They have been togeather for like 2 years. My Bf doesnt know that I know about the other guy( found out from a mutual friend). I never thought anything was wrong until i found all this out. I feel so stupid, mainly because of the things I never noticed. A couple of his friends were shocked that we were togeather, I also found out that i`m not really his normal kind of guy, but he kept telling me that he didnt care what his "normal type" he likes me. I really dont know if I should be mad at him or mad at everyone else for not telling me or both. I havent talked to him about it yet, I dont know how to bring it up,I know i should leave him and i want to but I really dont want to lose all the friends i know thought him, I cant stand to see him and i havent seen him since then, I dont know what to so and im freaking out about it...

You have a right to be both upset that everyone lied to you because when it all boils down to it he did lie to you, and has lied to you throughout the entire relationship. And there's no easy way to go through this, get angry, be pissed off because you feel honestly hurt by this. And as far as remaining friends with everyone you know through him, it's not ownership, he doesn't automatically get them like property. But what I ask is do you really want to be friends with people who basically helped him in this or may even side with him?

Keep me posted if you will

So I went to Lunch with him today, He had no clue i was pissed off about anything. I told him hes an a$$hole and that I hope his Bf`s wife finds out about the whole thing. I talked to all our friends and wanted their side of the whole deal and most of them thought that they broke up, I really do think they were true about that. As for my cousin, he though I know and that I was ok with it seeing that the other guy lives in Pa. He said he feels retarded for not telling me. I feel alot better now that I flipped out on my Ex now!!!!! I totally freaked out on him after we got our food, and I walked out and made him buy me lunch LOL. I`m so happy that i`m single now and i dont have to worry about the drama with the whole situation again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So what he just let you break up with him and have to flip the bill for lunch and yuo get the bad emotions... Dude if I knew everytime I only going to have to pick up the check for lunch or what ever and still be able to get away with being with two people at the same time I would do it more often! GET EVEN it's a lot more fun

I want to remind everyone that though it is extremely warming that you are giving advice to fellow members it is important to take his best interest to mind. throwing around ideas of what he should do or of what you might do in this perticular situation can only prove to be harmful if the wrong advice is given. Not saying that any has been just hoping Dago knows we only have his best interest at heart.