Who wants to play the advice game.

This is how this game works.
I ask a question dealing with my life without using names and I get your advice.
Doesn't this sound like fun e__e.

Okay so I know this ubercute boy from school. He is a little dorky but adorable, like fer srsly he is cuter then a kitten and a puppy trying to fit in the same shoe. However I can't read him at all. I can't even tell if he is strait or gay. He is just kinda, well, asexual. Okay of course he says he is strait but doesn't everyone if they feel they have something to loose by coming out. I know he has shit to loose. He has never been with a girl as far as I know. When I ask him about these things he kinda clams up. He knows by now I'm gay and we do hangout on occasion. Ya know two guys hang out alone play some video games, wrestle, the occasional "Man Hug" nothing to out-of-the-ordinary. He seems to have no problem with me *cough* "groping" him, but I never work up the balls to venture anywhere inappropriate mainly because I'm sure I would not like someone to do that to me.

IDK what do you think?

So you're saying you have been hanging out with this guy doing all the things you would normally do with someone you are courting or at least getting close to with out the actual getting close. It's dangerous and can be so damaging to yourself that you may not even see he is so content with the set up he has with you that he may get a little angered or even scared by any hints at labeling or even progressing to a little play. I don't want to assume anything, I'm more or less speaking from personal experience on this one, and don't want to come off as if I know the situation better then you do, I just want you to not get your hopes up for any thing more or less with this person and be let down in the long run.

see i understand where you both are coming from i have straight friends and we can play around like both male and females, but also we know our limits. I will share a little personal story here not to long ago i had a friend come over Straight guy we were frinds about 8 years or so and through out the nite both of us kept hitting around a joking and finally i asked him what he would do if i just started sucking him off well one thing lead to another and so on now that is off in the army we dont talk that much he was back in town for leave and at his cousins house which is down the couner from and he never stopped now he says he didnt have time if its true who knows. My only question to you is you need to ask yourself if you do take that extra step are you willing to lose that friendship. Maybe he is not sure of his sexuality and may want to try things and then maybe he is very comfortable with his sexuality and so the man hugs and playing around even though you are gay dont bother him.

Thanks guys ^^.

I don't know about you but I think the thought about being with a str guy is hott.. u can teach him a thing or 2.. lol

I use to be confused of my sexuality until I turned 21. I was with a couple girls before that. Once I had my first sexual experience with a guy I enjoyed it soo much I never went back..lol Now I can't get enough of the male body!!

You all know what I mean, well except you lesbians! haha

Dude don't force a guy to come out of the closet, he's not ready he's not ready. Just because it was easy for you to be who you are does not make it easy for others to be, life is hard man add on the fact that we are all different, and then the kicker might be gay yeah that's asking for a whole world of pain if you are used to being what others consider normal, and the right way. I have nothing but love for those that are out and pround but this world we live in is not pround of those that are and we need to except that some times not all of us have the choice to be who we want to be.